
What Is Love? Exposing the True Love of God
What Is Love? is a transformational 12-part series from The Rooted and Growing Christian's perspectives that uncovers what love truly is according to God’s design.
The journey begins by dismantling the world’s misconceptions of love — from emotional highs to self-focused “love yourself” culture — and rebuilding a biblical understanding centered on the truth that love is not a feeling but a daily choice.
Each post explores one of the seven Greek types of love, highlighting the four core biblical loves (Agape, Philia, Storge, Eros) and how the three extended Greek loves (Ludus, Pragma, Philautia) reveal additional facets of God’s heart when viewed through a biblical lens.
From unconditional agape to enduring pragma, the series walks through how love looks in friendships, families, marriages, and even toward ourselves. It concludes with practical applications on choosing love daily, setting boundaries, loving when it feels impossible, and understanding the true cost of love.
Through relatable metaphors, Scripture, and honest reflection, What Is Love? calls believers to live out real love — not as the world defines it, but as Christ demonstrated it.

The Illusion of Love
Exposing the world’s false portrayals of love
Part 1

Agape: The Love That Chooses Anyway
God’s unconditional, sacrificial love that defines all others
Part 2

Philia: The Love That Walks Beside You
Deep friendship grounded in loyalty, respect, and shared faith
Part 3

Storge: The Love That Holds Family Together
The natural affection that reflects God’s heart for family
Part 4

Eros: The Love That Reflects God’s Passion
Redeeming romantic and physical love through covenant
Part 5

Ludus: The Love That Laughs and Plays
Rediscovering the joy and playfulness God intended in love
Part 6

Pragma: The Love That Endures the Test of Time
Choosing faithfulness and commitment when feelings fade
Part 7

Philautia: The Love That Begins Within
Balancing godly self-worth and the danger of self-worship
Part 8

The Daily Choice: Living Out Love Everywhere
How to practice every kind of love in daily life
Part 9

Love and Boundaries: When “Yes” Means “No”
Why real love includes truth, limits, and protection
Part 10

When Love Feels Impossible
Learning to love your enemies and those who hurt you
Part 11

