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What Is Love? Exposing the True Love of God

What Is Love? Exposing the True Love of God

What Is Love? is a transformational 12-part series from The Rooted and Growing Christian's perspectives that uncovers what love truly is according to God’s design.

The journey begins by dismantling the world’s misconceptions of love — from emotional highs to self-focused “love yourself” culture — and rebuilding a biblical understanding centered on the truth that love is not a feeling but a daily choice.

Each post explores one of the seven Greek types of love, highlighting the four core biblical loves (Agape, Philia, Storge, Eros) and how the three extended Greek loves (Ludus, Pragma, Philautia) reveal additional facets of God’s heart when viewed through a biblical lens.

From unconditional agape to enduring pragma, the series walks through how love looks in friendships, families, marriages, and even toward ourselves. It concludes with practical applications on choosing love daily, setting boundaries, loving when it feels impossible, and understanding the true cost of love.

Through relatable metaphors, Scripture, and honest reflection, What Is Love? calls believers to live out real love — not as the world defines it, but as Christ demonstrated it.

The Illusion of Love

The Illusion of Love

Exposing the world’s false portrayals of love

Part 1

Agape: The Love That Chooses Anyway

Agape: The Love That Chooses Anyway

God’s unconditional, sacrificial love that defines all others

Part 2

Philia: The Love That Walks Beside You

Philia: The Love That Walks Beside You

Deep friendship grounded in loyalty, respect, and shared faith

Part 3

Storge: The Love That Holds Family Together

Storge: The Love That Holds Family Together

The natural affection that reflects God’s heart for family

Part 4

Eros: The Love That Reflects God’s Passion

Eros: The Love That Reflects God’s Passion

Redeeming romantic and physical love through covenant

Part 5

Ludus: The Love That Laughs and Plays

Ludus: The Love That Laughs and Plays

Rediscovering the joy and playfulness God intended in love

Part 6

Pragma: The Love That Endures the Test of Time

Pragma: The Love That Endures the Test of Time

Choosing faithfulness and commitment when feelings fade

Part 7

Philautia: The Love That Begins Within

Philautia: The Love That Begins Within

Balancing godly self-worth and the danger of self-worship

Part 8

The Daily Choice: Living Out Love Everywhere

The Daily Choice: Living Out Love Everywhere

How to practice every kind of love in daily life

Part 9

Love and Boundaries: When “Yes” Means “No”

Love and Boundaries: When “Yes” Means “No”

Why real love includes truth, limits, and protection

Part 10

When Love Feels Impossible

When Love Feels Impossible

Learning to love your enemies and those who hurt you

Part 11

The Cost of Love

The Cost of Love

Why real love always requires sacrifice — and why it’s worth it

Part 12

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